The zen of you and me: a guide to getting along with just about anyone, paperback/diane musho hamilton

How to deal with interpersonal conflict--from a Zen perspective.

The people who get under your skin the most can in fact be your greatest teachers.

Its not a matter of overlooking differences, as is often taught, but of regarding those difficult aspects of the relationship with curiosity and compassion--for those very differences offer a path to profound connection.

Diane Hamiltons practical, reality-based guide to living harmoniously with even your most irritating fellow humans--spouses, partners, colleagues, parents, children--shows that getting along is really a matter of discovering that our differences are nothing other than an expression of our even deeper shared unity.